Posted by Crooked Heart on February 14, 2004, at 8:16:31
In reply to Re: Validation, posted by DaisyM on February 13, 2004, at 21:07:07
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> Today he told me that he should remember to spend sometime going over the process again so I can see that what I am feeling is totally normal, not that it isn't unique to me. He said, "I know understanding the process and what might happen is important to you. We have to feed your intellect while holding your feelings." Yes. Yes!! It took 1/2 hour of a meltdown on the phone but I finally, finally, felt like I could make it through the weekend. And he just kept talking until I could let him go. So yes, sometimes they get it totally right. But Monday still seems pretty far away.
> :(Is it seeing some sort of a pattern and purpose above what otherwise feels like chaotic pointless bloody suffering? (So the left brain has its uses?)
Oh dear this is going to sound so glib, and I don't know if it's what you need either. Please believe you will get through this and be better for it. Roll on Monday!
Thinking of you.
poster:Crooked Heart
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