Posted by alexandra_k on April 12, 2014, at 21:40:13
In reply to Re: divorce? » gadchik, posted by baseball55 on April 12, 2014, at 19:53:53
wow. that is good. that things are amicable.
Perhaps he is grateful you didn't 'choose' (in some sense) the hysterical take him to the cleaners for everything you can get route... You aren't making his life sheer living hell... Sounds like you guys still have a basic... Respect... For one another (e.g., you value his opinion on some things). So... Things can remain reasonable... Of course, you are going to be needing some furniture and stuff like that can add up fast...
i suspect that a crash would be likely. once you have the room for one, if that makes sense. Like how I deteriorate in hospital. Because it is safe to do so. Or how I get sick every semester break. (Except this one - because only one class isn't working me hard enough). Once you have some room to... Grieve. I would think that would be fairly normal. Delay... Shock. That kinda thing.
But then things will come right... Eventually. You can build your life as you like it... Have the space to pursue alternative relationships should you choose...
Glad to hear you are hanging in there.
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