Posted by alexandra_k on April 2, 2014, at 20:34:19
In reply to Re: divorce?, posted by baseball55 on April 2, 2014, at 19:49:33
you are very smart. much smarter than me about money matters... sounds like you are figuring things out... sounds like... things haven't really been that great between you guys for a while now? you seemed to move pretty swiftly into wanting to leave and figuring out those logistics... he might be feeling better now that he's been open about things. that he isn't being deceptive anymore. i think that on some level all but the most psychopathic don't like being two-faced... it takes it's toll...
really talk to a lawyer about what seems likely... to help you figure / plan logistics. of course you might end up settling out of court for a bit less (and a lot less court costs) but a genuine threat of whatever can be most helpful in getting the ball rolling in that direction...
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