Posted by TexasChic on July 12, 2008, at 22:50:33
In reply to IMPORTANT - Get That Anger OUT))))))) » TexasChic, posted by Kath on July 12, 2008, at 20:53:16
> *****Dear TC - I think it's perfect that you wrote boss's boss what you did!!! I think it's very important that all those things are known.
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> I also am blown away by the WHOLE lunch thing & her knowing etc & not contacting you. I think you did well to pretend you were just looking around the mall. That was quick thinking & Huge maturity & self-control on your part.It took all my effort to turn around and go back there. I wanted to just leave with no explanation. But I knew I was acting on emotion so I thought I better do what I thought was the right thing, rather than what would have felt better.
Thanks for saying it was justified. I know I have to figure things out for myself, but its good to know someone else thought all of it was way out of line.
I love all your anger suggestions! I like the writing what I want to say without sending it idea. That might help get it out of my head. I think I'll do that tomorrow to try to get my mind right for work on Monday. I want to go in like nothing is bothering me. I'm feeling ok now, but I seem to go through cycles of getting all upset about it, and then getting control for a while again.
Thanks so much Kath!
-T
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