Posted by Susan47 on February 9, 2005, at 13:33:54
In reply to Re: Please...I beg for help with girlfriend problem.. » alexandra_k, posted by jay on February 7, 2005, at 18:24:22
I hope you don't mind my two cents, Jay. I'm a bit scared to post to you because.. well I don't know why, really. Weird. Anyway, I used to be the girl you're dating. Well, obviously we have different lives and different stuff but she sounds insecure, uncertain of herself, and a bad risk even though she's very attractive, vulnerable, and warm .. also, an incredible turn-on for you for the first time in years. Hard to resist, hm? I'm so scared I'll be in your position too one day, because I'm not the girl I used to be but I definitely am lonely, and romantic, and needing the human touch very much. I have to keep reminding myself that men come imperfect and I have to be careful, I've been down that road too many times before. I'm fragile in my new skin, which is still developing, and I need a very confident, secure, stable person by my side, if anyone. I have to remind myself all the time not to take chances with others, because being alone is so incredibly hard for me. (((Jay))) IMO this sweet lady has a lot of work to do on her internal workings before she's ready for a relationship.
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