Posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 7, 2005, at 8:46:19
In reply to Please...I beg for help with girlfriend problem.., posted by jay on February 6, 2005, at 15:13:28
Jay,
I am sure I will voice a very unpopular opinion here. And I know I know nothing about your relationship or her or you. But from a purely objective bystander opinion, I'm not so sure this may be the girl for you.
A lot of men like to take on the "rescuer" role with women, coming to the aid of women in trouble and believing they can make things OK again. DO you think perhaps you might be doing this?
All of the somewhat suicidal talk is a big indicator to me that she needs to work on herself before being in a realtionship. BElieve me however, I realize the pull of the physical and it is wonderful to have warmeth and sexuality in your life.
Anyway, I'm just sayin'. However, I'm sure you've thought about all of this. Just thought I would offer a diferent perspective. I've seen some of my friends get into some of these pickles and it is always hard.
poster:Miss Honeychurch
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