Posted by kara lynne on August 24, 2003, at 20:32:49
anymore. The ex left a couple of messages in the last few days. He started out with 'so sad you don't want to be my friend', which I found easy not to reply to. Then he just said he missed me, both in emails and in phone messages. I did not call him back, although it was very difficult not to. I wanted to tell him I miss him too, but I don't think it would do any good, and it would just hook me back in. If he came to me and said he wanted to work on the relationship, that he missed me and wanted to do something about it--maybe then it would mean something.
So I didn't answer. And today he left the message that he would not be contacting me anymore, but it will be hard because he misses me.
What am I supposed to do with that? I guess nothing. Maybe I can comfort myself by thinking that if there is anything real between us it will survive. Or maybe I will just think I've blown my last chance.
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thread:253655
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