Posted by fallsfall on September 1, 2003, at 16:42:34
In reply to High Priestess fallsfall, posted by kara lynne on September 1, 2003, at 15:08:25
You are so cute: "Other than that I'm fine".
I'd love to give you wise wisdom, but I'm fresh out. I would like to believe that if you are happy with yourself that nothing else (marriage, kids, career, house) matters. That may be true. I do think you are right that you have to start with you and then move on to the other things. From what I've seen, the world is lucky to have you. So give things a little time. You haven't been away from El-Creepo for very long. Did you see the post from Kalyb? She has a boyfriend now! It does work. Deep breaths help.
I'm not divorced yet. We've been separated for 4 years. He doesn't want a divorce and I won't care until 3 years from now when my youngest graduates from high school. I left him because he was toxic (in a psychological sense) to me. If I was to live, I had to leave. So it was a necessity. We started talking about it 7 months before I left. So I was really ready to be gone. Leaving him was easy. Dealing with my children and family was much harder. Those issues have settled down.
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