Posted by sar on December 6, 2001, at 10:05:54
In reply to Re: Jealous, posted by Roo on December 6, 2001, at 9:28:44
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> No it's not. I hate being jealous. It feels so ugly and trite. But I guess I ought to just
> welcome myself to the human race.i agree with what the other posters said. i can relate to wht you wrote about your fiance almost being a motherly figure; mine was too. once i saw his new girlfriend on the street, i was walking behind her, and i thought bitterly, Well at least he got the big-booty girlfriend he always wanted!
i think that time makes it a little easier...and i like what Mouse wrote...i was talking to a friend last night and he told me that upon marrying one another, he and his girlfriend destroyed all photos/mementos of past lovers. he kind of coerced her into doing this. i replied that that reflected a degree of insecurity on his part, but this morning, over coffee, i understand the rationale behind it: when my best friend broke my heart, i destroyed everything he'd ever given me. had a nice little fire jamboree in my backyard. the smoke was so strong that firetrucks were called by an unknowing neighbor.
we have to live with these scars on our hearts, that's all...
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