Posted by sar on December 3, 2001, at 14:15:55
In reply to Jealous, posted by Roo on December 3, 2001, at 12:46:45
dear Roo,
if i remember correctly, were you engaged?
i can relate to you to your situation to a painful degree; in April of 2000 i broke up with someone who truly loved me, and i loved him a bit less--but still, he was my first love, and it hurt so much to see that he was dating and sleeping with different girls after our break-up. we slipped up to, had sex several times after our break-up and it was wonderful but sad too; finally, it was his decision that we couldn't hang out oo much anymore. he needed distance from me to get over the break-up. i was so emotionally attatched to him that it hurt *very much* (and does to this day), but i realize he made the most rational decision. if i saw him now, i think i would collapse into his arms, in spite of not wanting to be with him ever again.
human relationships are weird--flailing, intimately close, wispy, difficult--and never what they seem. it can be very disheartening.
your feelings are very human.
poster:sar
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