Posted by Roo on December 3, 2001, at 14:37:30
In reply to Re: Jealous, posted by sar on December 3, 2001, at 14:15:55
> dear Roo,
>
> if i remember correctly, were you engaged?
>
>Sar, Yes, we were engaged. He's very much the
getting married type. It will hurt a lot to see
him getting married to someone else, even though
I broke it off. We were very emotionally attached
as well. I really depended on him, probably to
an unhealthy degree, to soothe me and make me feel
better, and he did, like nobody else could. He was
kind of like the mother I never had--a very good
caretaker. But there wasn't a great deal of spark.
Now it seems like my lesson is learning to mother and
be kind to myself, rather than depend so much on other
for reassurance that i'm lovable, etc.Thanks for sharing your experience---I could definitely
relate and it just helps to know I'm not alone in
this.
poster:Roo
thread:14805
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