Posted by annierose on May 31, 2012, at 7:44:09
In reply to Re: What are you STILL doing in therapy?! » annierose, posted by Dinah on May 31, 2012, at 1:27:35
I couldn't agree more - therapy is a very safe place. I pretty much die of embarrassment talking about my feelings with my therapist at least once a week (as I go 2 - 3x a week). Therapists are very talented at making their office a safe place to explore all our dark secrets, our fantasies, our dreams and our fears.
But I do think, my therapist shakes her head at my current life and wonders what the heck I am doing.
She wants me to be okay being alone. And I think I am okay with that. I didn't bring about these men into my life - each of them started texting/calling me. I just respond back ... because I am lonely. My soon-to-be-ex-husband and I are still living in the same household until our attorneys sort out our finances --- so it's awkward at best. Since I don't talk to my husband, it's nice carrying on a texting conversation with another adult in the quiet evenings.