Posted by Dinah on April 2, 2008, at 9:25:53
In reply to Re: I'm not bored anymore » Dinah, posted by Daisym on April 2, 2008, at 0:13:43
I think you hit the nail on the head. I think *he* trusts *me* in a different way. To be able to see who he is rather than who I need him to be, perhaps? Or maybe he trusts my boundaries. I guess I'll never know that part of it.
He also seems to be looking for different things from me. Like he's challenging me more now on my body language. Or to feel more confident in my interpersonal relationships. I've always said that it looks like he thinks I'm more unwell than I think I am. Maybe he's shifted to my viewpoint.
I think maybe there are opportunities to grow and change in this sort of shift. Although I suppose there will also be times when I need him to be my therapist/mommy, and I suspect he won't refuse to do that.