Posted by sunnydays on August 6, 2007, at 18:06:58
In reply to I am so hurt, I told my T I am not coming back, posted by slugdoo on August 6, 2007, at 15:01:42
It doesn't sound like he said he didn't care to me. It sounds like he may have chosen his words poorly, but it sounds like he cares very much. He was just pointing out the boundaries, which sounds like not what you needed right then. My T has said he cares about me, but that feelings about me don't affect him at all like feelings about his family.
It sounds like an off session. I have been absolutely devastated by those too. A lot of the time I was mishearing what he said, or he said something that he didn't mean or what he did mean in a bad way. I hope you can explain clearly to him what hurt you and work it out. It seems like one bad session shouldn't erase the working relationship you two have carefully built over years.
I would urge you to have another session or two to try to work it out.
sunnydays
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