Posted by pfinstegg on May 11, 2007, at 21:14:59
In reply to Re: what happened, posted by pfinstegg on May 10, 2007, at 8:45:32
I see why he is running everything! He has a very calm, empathic demeanor- calmer than the first one. He doesn't direct anything, but is really helping me process the grief I have been feeling about the collapse of the first therapy relationship. He is also very flexible; when I said that I would start to get worried when he was quiet that he, too, didn't want me in the office, he looked at me and said, really sincerely, " I haven't had any thought like that, but I am very glad you told me that you needed more responsiveness from me." Then he was more responsive! I cry buckets, and leave with swollen eyes and smeared/no makeup, but I'm so glad I found him. It is starting to really feel right and hopeful.
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