Posted by Daisym on May 12, 2007, at 22:50:39
In reply to Re: The new analyst is really good! » Daisym, posted by pfinstegg on May 12, 2007, at 21:58:18
Perhaps it doesn't matter what part is feeling what right now -- all of you is in shock. I tend to fragment when there is conflict among feeling states, particularly the self-blame stuff.
I think it would bother me to know they are friends - I'd want to ask questions or see if I could get answers about what happened or how he was now - or particularly is there remorse or sadness on his side? Perhaps in time those answers will come, if you need them.
And no, I haven't followed up on the potential date as of yet. I'm still pretty red faced. My therapist laughed, long and hard -- and then said "call him." Sheesh. I'm too old for this. It brings up a whole slew of feelings that I haven't had to contend with for awhile.
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