Posted by pfinstegg on May 12, 2007, at 21:58:18
In reply to Re: The new analyst is really good! » pfinstegg, posted by Daisym on May 12, 2007, at 21:11:03
Thank you, Daisy. I've been wondering about the younger states, myself. I am really just getting to know the new analyst- and he me- but it seems that he doesn't put so much emphasis on identifying what part might be predominant at any given moment. I think he just feels that they are all there all the time. He seems to want most of all that I know that he is really listening, and will be responsive and caring. I think he assumes that all my parts are always there, expressing themselves as part of me. I don't feel that any part of me, or any feelings or thoughts, are being ignored. I really adored the other analyst, but he really did become destructive suddenly. I think this one is in fact more helpful- certainly wonderful about helping me process what happened with the first one. We aren't yet at the point where I feel able to tell him about my own abuse issues with any detail or feeling (he does know about them), but it's getting better all the time.
I love the picture of you in a pink suit and pink high heels, meeting what might be a good guy- notwithstanding the spilled coffee! I hope you feel like following up on that. If you do, tell us!
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