Posted by frida on February 16, 2007, at 23:19:01
In reply to Re: desperate » frida, posted by wishingstar on February 16, 2007, at 23:09:35
Dear wishingstar,
you are welcome---
I do understand the pain you feel, I've been there...and i know how hard it is to hang on and need so much to be held...and to cry with someone who cares.
The only thing that helps me too when I feel as desperate is to cry with someone who lets me...and who cares and holds my hand at least and tells me that it will be ok...
and really really connecting to my T...it does help to know she knows and to share the depth of these feelings...and just feel comforted.Maybe if you can share this with your T...she may surprise you and be there for you in a way that can help you?
I wish there was someone who could give you a hug right now.
(((((wishingstar))))))
Frida.
Ps: I understand that need so much...I've been lucky enough to find a physical T that my T recommended to me, and I can't tell you the difference it has made to me..we've developed a wonderful connection and it is so important to me to have her hold my hand or hold me if I cry. I've cried as a baby and she has held me for a long time and this has truly helped me out of the despair I was feeling and I feel so often. Reaching out to my T also helps a lot..hearing her say that she cares about me and is with me and that we'll make it through this...it means a lot to "surrender", stop fighting a little and just feel taken care of...
Just sharing..i wish you could cry and be held by someone who truly cares.
wishing you peace and relief soon
hoping Ginny calls you.....hang on....
F.
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