Posted by Scentedgarden on December 6, 2006, at 19:29:37
In reply to Re: anyone still in love with their T..? Or not..? » Scentedgarden, posted by Declan on December 6, 2006, at 17:40:57
> In what you say I'm not surprised by the love angle, bur was by the sex. But perhaps that's because I did therapy in my 20s with a mature woman.
> We are creatures of love, it comes to us very easily.
> It is 20 years since I finished my therapy and even by the end of it I was tired of my efforts to find the real person behind the therapist.
> If your T was not your T, would you consider a sexual relationship? See, that was not an issue with me.HI i think your message is very helpful...could you plz elaborate for me on the efforts to know the person behind the thrapist...as i think you may be onto something there..
im just feeling it, i think you have something, but i dont know that i try to put effort into finding behind her, as i see behind her therapist face lots...most of the time, except whren she has to try very hard to put her mask back on to maintain boundaries with me...
Im looking very hard for help and to help myself with this...sa im not going to let it bog me down...or overwhelm me, but it is obviously bugging me enough to spend time writng about it to you here..
i wish with all my heart if its part of my sickness that i will get better...
and if it's real then i will know it too, and just accept we gel...and that happens sometimes...and leave it at that...we have decided to wind down now,, and finish in a year...but i may go sooner...anyway thats another thread,,,so lets stick to 'in love' stuff for the mo...
thanks for your help and reply..scentedgarden
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