Posted by Daisym on October 5, 2006, at 21:03:34
In reply to Re: projective identification » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 5, 2006, at 20:48:34
I hear so much sadness in your words. I feel like you do - I'm so smart that I can "manuever" easily around other people's attempts. But I desperately want to stop doing that and feel cared for and heard and helped.
I'm so thankful that my therapist won't let me get away with much. He is smart and a total smarta%%! He uses humor a lot but he is also tough when he needs to be. Once he said, in a sort of angry voice, "who are you saying that to? Me? Me - who has watched you weep? Pull that 'I'm fine sh%% with someone else!" Hmmm -- scary but soooo nice.
I hope this new person works for you.
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