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Re: Paying to have my heart professionally broken raisinb

Posted by crushedout on July 21, 2006, at 21:58:08

In reply to Re: Paying to have my heart professionally broken, posted by raisinb on July 21, 2006, at 21:13:40

> Wow, I posted in response to another message, but crushedout, your situation is exactly like mine. I don't know what to do. You seem to have told your therapist; I probably won't be able to do that, but does that do any good?


Well, I found this site over three years ago on the day that I told my *last* therapist I was in love with her. That's a long story and she didn't deal with it in the best way, so here I am, still going through the same sh*t. I'm not in a position to tell you that it does any good.

What I am pretty certain of, though, is that going to therapy and not being honest with your T about exactly what's going on with you won't do a person a lick of good. But I also know how hard it is to talk about this stuff. And I think it's important to be prepared for your T's response. If s/he is a good T, s/he won't agree to run off with you, or even encourage your feelings in any way. That can be terribly disappointing when you want more than anything to have your love reciprocated.


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