Posted by orchid on December 26, 2005, at 0:17:57
In reply to Help me please, re: ex-T, posted by Susan47 on December 25, 2005, at 13:27:37
I do sympathize with you. A lot. I do understand how difficult it has become for you.
But you have to stop calling his phone. Whatever he did or did not do, if he hurt you or not or even if he acted inappropriately in your session, it is not ok to call a person repeatedly - and I think you said you called pretty much everyday. I can understand the pain that makes you do it, and I really feel very sorry that he couldn't really help you through your feelings. But please don't call him anymore. It will only end up becoming uglier than it already is. And you won't gain anything out of it - no respect, no love, no affection. You will only end up embarrasing yourself further.
I do have a suggestion. You can probably date other men and it might take your T off your mind. I think you could perhaps date as many men as possible, and try to put yourself into the relationship when you are dating. And that might help get rid of your T from your mind. Or if you can attend a church or a religious group it might also help.
((susan))
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