Posted by B2chica on November 7, 2005, at 11:21:30
In reply to Re: My feelings, posted by happyflower on November 6, 2005, at 17:56:10
please don't stop posting about it. this is the place to get it all out. to be blunt, to tell us what you want to tell him. sometimes just saying it to someone safe is enough. and you don't really want what you think you want, maybe cuz you know you shouldn't is edging you more to think that you want it.....uh, did i make sense??
anyway. DON"T stop posting about this.
1)you need to express your true feelings
2)it can be cathardic
3)you can get good advice
and
4)we can live vicariously through you!!!
:^)i think that going over the time cuz with chit chat is fine, i do that with my t all the time. we have SO much in common it's scary. and maybe him asking about the affairs isn't cuz he want to have one with you but helping you explore your sexuality??
(though in my heart i do think he has his own interests in mind).i do however, think that he should be aware that he is blurring the lines with you, since he does not...that's worrying.
i think you DO care for him BECAUSE you are feeling better becuase of all he's helped you with. you feel connected because of all you've shared, because he's been there for you, and of course some physical attraction.the main advice i say is to take this seriously, don't just blow off his actions to harmless flirting or curiosity.
PLEASE put yourself first and what is really best for you.
best wishes
FWIW
b2c.
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