Posted by damos on August 1, 2005, at 1:53:42
In reply to therapy today..., posted by alexandra_k on July 31, 2005, at 20:35:32
Hey precious girl. Don't know that I can add much to what GG and Daisym have said. My heart breaks for you in so many ways Alex, just so many ways.
I think you need to talk to her about why you need to go slow and not push these things too hard. Like what you said in your last post. From what you've said about her before I think she'll understand. Honestly, unlike old 'washer face' I think she really does want to help. I think she's probably still just trying to work out how, like we've talked about before. She's probably feeling just as scared as you are, and like a blind person feeling her way in an unfamiliar place, she's gonna bump into stuff and have to back up unless someone helps guide her through.
Maybe doing some centering/clearing exercises at the start of each session might help with the sense of 'being there' - just a thought.
Just know, you're welcome to collapse into my arms and cry your heart out any old time you feel like it.
((((((((((Alex))))))))))
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