Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 13:38:20
In reply to a chorus! » pinkeye, posted by Shortelise on May 12, 2005, at 1:09:52
Yeah I guess I see your points.
And I think what Ts are telling us is atleast to start respsecting ourselves and not take unjustified blame on ourselves.
I think I have some deep issues around that.
I think the key is balance. How much we forgive others, and how much we forgive ourselves.. How much responsibility we take for others and how much we take for ourselves.
I don't think it should be all me, or it should be all people around me.. parents husband etc. Ideally it is right combination.
But it is so hard to get the right combination.
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