Posted by pinkeye on May 11, 2005, at 21:27:45
In reply to Re: Why not advice to forgive our parents? **trigger** » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on May 11, 2005, at 20:26:42
hmm.. things like that are really hard to forgive. And especially when they do it when the other person is sick, then it is almmost imposssilbe.
I also feel I will be able to forgive my father everything he did to me - but maybe not for the fact that he treated my mother so cruelly when she complained of pain in her stomach several times. He used to tell her - to go and complain to someone else, and not to him. He used to say it so rudely too. I wonder how he is always perceived as very jovial, and intelligent and very caring by lot of people. I know to my mom, he was never 1 % of what he showed to outside people. That - I don't think I will be able to forgive - ever. And he still thinks my mom doesn't deserve him. She still is very affectionate towards him, takes care of him so very much.. Hmm.. more and more I like my mom.
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