Posted by sunny10 on May 11, 2005, at 15:40:22
In reply to Re: Why not advice to forgive our parents? **trigger** » happyflower, posted by pinkeye on May 11, 2005, at 15:01:27
It's not a matter of "blame"... it's a matter of owning up to HOW you were raised, and what you must do to make things right for yourself as an adult BECAUSE your parents can't "fix" you....
I believe that the premise here is, "If you can never admit to be treated badly, unfairly, etc... how do you ever admit anything to yourself? How do you accept reality?", not "it's okay because it's someone else's fault"...
At least that's how it's been in my experience...
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