Posted by Shortelise on March 11, 2005, at 20:00:56
In reply to She Called Back, posted by Skittles on March 11, 2005, at 18:34:44
Her feelings about this ought not affect her therapy with you. You freaked out, she doesn't understand what happened. It's her job to try to get you to come back and talk about it.
For goodness sake, when our T's go away, most of us get wierd. That's therapy 101!
How many people get hurt and quit therapy? A bazillion. How many T's phone and talk through some of the hurt with their clients and the clients agree to go back? Most of the bazillion that quit in the first place.
Your T must really need a break. I am so sorry for you! I am not in a great space myself right now, so maybe I am angry for things that don't have anything to do with your T. But honestly, if my T had encouraged me to quit every time I wanted to, I wouldn't have been in therapy for every long. As it was, each time he'd call me, or would tell me that he didn't think it was a good idea, and he'd always try to get to the bottom of the feelings that made me want to go.
I send you hugs, sorry if they're somewhat angry hugs, but that should only show in that they're kind of tighter than usual.
ShortE
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