Posted by lucy stone on June 3, 2004, at 16:01:40
In reply to Re: Comments on Appearance in Therapy, posted by Dinah on June 3, 2004, at 9:34:53
I decided to see what kind of comment my T would make about my appearance if I directly asked him. I got my hair cut yesterday, something I very much dislike. I don't like to talk about my appearance I don't like to ask for what I want, I don't like to look at myself, and I don't like to be touched by people outside of my immediate family. Obviously, hair styling is very hard. We talked about the Hair Experience today, and as I was leaving I asked if he liked my new style. He said "I do, but I think you do to." So I asked again, "so you do like it?" He said again, "I do, but I think you do to." He was willing to say he liked it, but he made sure that I also liked it. He makes sure the focus is always on me and how I feel about things.
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