Posted by tabitha on May 5, 2004, at 0:06:35
In reply to Maybe... » tabitha, posted by Racer on May 4, 2004, at 11:34:25
Well, I dragged myself to group, although all day I was fantasizing cancelling or not showing up, and I did tell them about my gripes with her. They said the same thing Racer said-- try talking to them instead of her. So I went over one thing, but this time I wasn't really mad at any of them anyway, it was all at her response to what I'd told her in individual just talking over the group, so it was a little weird. She kept trying to keep me off the topic of her and me, and said we'd 'clean that up' in individual. But I ended up feeling really supported by the group, and more connected with them than ever. So now I've got all my bad feelings directed at her, and the group is golden.
Maybe this is some kind of therapy adolescence-- I'm bonding with my peers and rejecting the parent.
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