Posted by Karen_kay on February 18, 2004, at 16:13:59
In reply to Re: I can relate to every one of you...., posted by antigua on February 18, 2004, at 12:49:43
About telling husbands/SO no:
I'm the same way. I just can't say no. If I don't want to I'll say no once, but he doesn't give up.
Other times, I fel it's my "obligation" to be a "good girl, girlfriend" That's what I'm supposed to do. Shut my mouth and hope it's fast.
I haven't noticed any type of merging except during the flashback, though I did have a dream where my boyfriend suddenly turned into my father and he had sex with me. Then he cried and said he was sorry... I wonder if that makes it better?
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