Posted by antigua on February 18, 2004, at 12:49:43
In reply to I can relate to every one of you...., posted by KindGirl on February 17, 2004, at 23:12:21
Yep, that's the way I feel to--at the end of the day it's just me and my pillow. My husband would probably willingly hug me 24 hrs/day, but then he always wants it to lead to sex, which is most definitely NOT what I want at those times. While I do have people who support me (including you guys), I have to figure this out for myself, and make my life work for me. It's very sad and lonely when you never learned good coping skills.But I'm trying!!
Daisy, I'm sorry about the flashback. For me, it's that I can't stand to be touched at certain times and I absolutely hate my husband, to the point that I could hit him, or really hurt him. My T says to tell him no, but this is a marriage and a relationship that's very important to me. I've noticed that it has gotten worse lately, the merging of my husband and father. My husband doesn't know too many details. My Ts and I argue about this constantly. I know that my husband cannot handle the details, it really, really upsets him to the point that it's just not worth discussing. Maybe one day I'll get past that.
Kind Girl, Do you have any children?
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