Posted by antigua on January 13, 2004, at 16:37:49
In reply to Re: needing a hug being refused, wish it didn't hurt, posted by metalflipflop on January 13, 2004, at 15:58:24
I am so very sorry that you are feeling so badly. I felt totally betrayed when a therapist I had been working w/for several months (not even a whole year!) just turned on me one day and told me that he was referring me out--no more sessions, no explanation except for that he couldn't help me anymore (never explained the change, he had been telling me how he was going to see me through all this, blah, blah, and there were never ANY boundary crossings that I was aware of). End of discussion, hit the road and don't come back.
I was so hurt I didn't know what to do. I felt so betrayed that I had shared my secrets/feelings w/this person and he had stomped all over them.
I'm still not really over it. I went back to my regular T and she was wonderful helping me through it. Once I got over being hurt, I don't think I was ever so mad in my life.
If you can, tell her everything tomorrow; try to get it all out. It very well may be your last session w/her but perhaps you'll feel better if you can let her know how much she has hurt you.
I am really, really sorry you have had to go through this,
antigua
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