Posted by Paul on October 28, 1999, at 10:04:58
In reply to Re: Where there's smoke, there's fire...., posted by Gigi on October 28, 1999, at 7:00:46
Dear Gigi,
That masturbation thing does sound somewhat worrisome, if only because I can't personally imagine sending that kind of thing to a 14-year-old when I was 18. Or now. Or any other time. So that changes things!
It might be a good idea to keep your daughter away from this particular (potentially predatory) person while not stifling her natural development. Just remember: because there's one perv out there on the internet doesn't mean they're all like that.
I hope that your relationship with your daughter grows and stays healthy and that you can help her learn to distinguish between safe and dangerous sexualized play (over the internet or anywhere else).
poster:Paul
thread:13486
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