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Re: My Personal Experience Regarding Daughers and Sex

Posted by Adam on November 4, 1999, at 1:00:32

In reply to Re: My Personal Experience Regarding Daughers and Sex, posted by katie on November 3, 1999, at 14:33:57

I've followed this thread with interest, and, uh...spineless, pansy-ish? I think not. Liberal? Sure.

First, Gigi, thanks for sharing the part about the video. Clearly the situation was somewhat more serious than I first thought. Honestly, I initially believed
your methods of dealing with the problem were a damaging overreaction. Now I see it as one of several possible reactions. I will stand by some of my initial
feelings, however: I don't think there's anything wrong with your daughter, I don't think she has degraded herself, and I don't think she needs therapy as much
as she needs a closer relationship with you and her father. At her age, if there are issues with intimacy (fantasy vs. reality, sexuality with real-life peers
or disembodied internet paramours), your love and trust will do more good than anything any therapist can do. Even at that tender age, she is a sexual being. And
she will be having real sex with real boys or girls before too long, and there need to be open lines of communication, and, like I said, trust. Chances are you
won't know (and won't want to know) everything, but you'll know enough to protect her, and, most importantly, help her protect herself.

> > I have a 15 year old daugher. She goes on the internet and loves to "Crash" chat rooms. She will go to the religious sites and say shes the devil. (She likes that best.) Also the sex sits and somestimes "assumes" a male persona, lesbian, whatever. I call this creativity. She is normal. Not a split personality. Not a manic deprssive. But very creative.
> >
> > She has received pictures, not vidos that I know of, of similar things that GiGi's daugher received from the "preditor". She laughs about it. So do I.
> > ***********
> laugh, huh?
> *******Ya know I'm about sick of this liberal, pansy board. Some of you people have no spines. This page won't be bookmarked any more. It's been a real waste of time.*****************
> > How do I know all this? I ask her and she tells me. I tell her the fact that she is NOT to give anyone her real name or address. And I know she would not. She is no stupid. She knows right from wrong and has fantastic common sence along with a fantastic sence of humor.
> >
> > I remember when I was 15. ALL I thought about was sex. (Even when I was 12.) A bump in the road was a phallus. I wanted bigger breasts. And I read dirty magazines. (As far as I know my parents were unaware.) When the time comes for my daugher to venture to the next step in her sexual development, I am sure she will come to me for advise. Most kids nowadays go to the next step by 16.
> >
> > Good Luck GiGi.




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