Posted by Noa on October 6, 1999, at 22:03:05
In reply to Re: WHY?, posted by phyl on October 6, 1999, at 17:32:38
This may be just semantics, but I tend to understand the words "self pity" or "feeling sorry for oneself" differently than most people do. To me it is not a bad thing. But to blame oneself, which is what many of us do when we experience pain, ah, that is the thing to avoid. That is the suffering.
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