Posted by gobbledygook on June 2, 2009, at 12:14:45
In reply to If he calls me sexy, posted by Deneb on June 2, 2009, at 1:01:38
Oh....Deneb,
I know it's all very confusing right now, but I hope you really listen to some of the advice given here.
(If you need someone to just share and vent with about all this "yucky stuff", or even to talk about Hammie,
Big Head Bob and Meow Meow with...babble mail me and I'll lend a ear in your chat room.)I'm just going to reiterate what Garnet has said as I can't say it any better -
Take care, Deneb.
Ava-
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------"You seem like you could get hurt real bad, do you think it's a good time to be dating? Maybe you could take a break until you discuss this with your therapist? You just seem so innocent and vulnerable, and I mean that in a good way, but I get very uncomfortable reading your posts about this subject.
Maybe it would be better if you joined some Meet Up groups or a sports or travel group to do fun things - as a group - with coeds - friends as opposed to dating? It just seems like you are getting upset and hurt, but you only went on one date with this guy. What if you were dating someone several times, how upset and hurt would you get with another triggering interaction?
If you were my sister, I'd say to not date until you talked to your therapist about these experiences and thoughts.
I'm just another opinion on a forum to you, but in seeing you mention self harm and wanting to die is a pretty good indication that you are not ready to date. I also don't think anyone should be encouraging you to date--on this forum or anywhere else--with that level of emotional unstabilitity. Your mother may not be providing suggestions that are best for you right now. You could get hurt really bad.
Please talk to your therapist first and please be careful." - Garnet71
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