Posted by MidnightBlue on February 6, 2008, at 14:16:23
In reply to Re: Still feel bad *trigger*, posted by Deneb on February 6, 2008, at 0:29:18
Deneb,
Only get married and have children when/if YOU want to. Your parents and society don't have a vote on this.
Yes there are certain things a person "has" to do. Best I can tell you are doing those! You are working at a job to help support yourself, you are going to school to get a better education, you are going to a pdoc and learning about yourself and how to take care of yourself, you are reaching out to others and making friends.
It is okay if your timetable isn't the same as your Mom's. If she gets really sick and tired of putting up with you then try to find a roommate and see if you can make it on your own. But do NOT go and live with your sister! See if your pdoc has some suggestions.
MB
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