Posted by your#1fan on January 13, 2008, at 20:45:57
In reply to Re: Alright i need everyone here to listen to this » your#1fan, posted by Racer on January 13, 2008, at 2:14:04
Alright, im glad you posted!
I am aware that the advice has been given to me, actaully over a long period of time. Its just that, i think what i was asking maybe here was a place to vent and tell people my problems, not just babble, but get to a point to a point of reality.
Lately i have had difficulty with work, when im working in a very "fast" or a "rush" period when about 170 people areto get collage books, i feel im litterly dont feel "real". And i think its a response to stress. I feel im rotating and putting on diffrent persona's to help with my ego. Its not spit personalites, its a mental rotation, because i cant stay in one state of mind with this stress. And plus because of class afterwards I get this immidate feeling of injection of adrenaline.
You know the first day of work i showed up looking like some celebrity..... i made friends really quick both co-workers and customers. ROFL i had throw that in there. I wore slacks, shirt tuck in, sharp.
Anyways..............
<<<<<<<<<<<I'd also like to point out something else: I was taught that clarity in writing reflected clarity in thinking, that sometimes writing something down as clearly -- and concisely -- as possible could help clarify your thoughts. It's an exercise worth trying when things seem outside your control or understanding. It's something which has helped me, maybe it will help you if you try it.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
I speak my thoughts a little too much with people. I dont really get to the point sometimes and thats what gets them mad. But i have to say........lately at work i HAVE to get to the point to have a satisfied custumer. What they want, used? new? what tools do they want with it? and maybe convice them to buy a helpful 5.99 study guide for that course. Thats what i do. And in my opnion i feel, i'm making sure that they are satisfied.
That shows that i have skills,..... but in social situations im not that good at it, with small talk, i mainly get annoying. But then when i get that rejected feeling i just roll my eyes at people and act annoyed by them for treated me like some object.
And!..........when it just comes to every day life. I lose keys, forget what i was going to say, repeated vital things that i just absentmindedly do, because when your not in a work enviorment, you have no rules to go by.
Well..........it looks like i went a bit too far in responding....HAha! well maybe its good because you said to write down every thing i can think of.
I have read your post over and over some times to get what your exactly saying. I feel stupid sometimes.....
well...........thanks for the response.
Your#1fan
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