Posted by Racer on January 13, 2008, at 2:14:04
In reply to Alright i need everyone here to listen to this., posted by your#1fan on January 13, 2008, at 1:09:41
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> I've got to get my life in order and maybe some people here can help.
>Exactly how do you think we can help? What is it we can do to help you get through this "roughest" time in your life?
I think what many have offered in the past, advice, is probably the best we can do. I don't know that I have any new advice for you, myself -- just the same advice I've been giving you for a couple of years now: get into therapy; examine the way you express certain things (ie: You often write that things happen to you -- yet, you describe events which are within your control. How helpless it must feel to see all of these events as being entirely outside your control! That would be a terrible way to feel. Yet ...); learn your realistic limits -- can you work full time and carry seven hours of classes? -- and get yourself into therapy. I consider all those bits of advice to have value, and potentially to be very helpful to you. They're the most valuable thing I have to offer you, and I've offered them to you.
I'd also like to point out something else: I was taught that clarity in writing reflected clarity in thinking, that sometimes writing something down as clearly -- and concisely -- as possible could help clarify your thoughts. It's an exercise worth trying when things seem outside your control or understanding. It's something which has helped me, maybe it will help you if you try it.
Good luck.
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