Posted by confuzyq on July 21, 2007, at 11:36:58
In reply to Re: A much older married man and I have fallen in love, posted by PhoenixGirl on July 20, 2007, at 17:16:11
...if he does show back up at some point, saying "I WILL leave her for you..." You can then tell him not to even think about it, that your moral convictions have been too disturbed by how it all happened, to ever allow you to have a completely trusting and healthy relationship. And that in fact it changed your feelings in the end.
Ok ok I know I'm probably oversimplifying how easy the extrication could be. But it's probably the best way to get out and slam/lock the door to any residuals immediately, since your feelings really have changed. Good luck!
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