Posted by Glydin on July 18, 2007, at 9:07:59
In reply to A much older married man and I have fallen in love, posted by PhoenixGirl on July 16, 2007, at 23:43:42
Oh my, please proceed carefully. Try to get beyond the "head over heels" thoughts and be objective in your decisions. I've know of three women in similar situations and none of them turned out to the benefit of those women. One actually stayed in an affair for 15 years... waiting and waiting on a promise never kept.... and there was ALWAYS a good reason for why it was never a good time for him to end his marriage (???)
These situations tend to be about cheating, lying and secrets... it's probably not the best foundation for a relationship that is healthy and meets the needs of both parties.
Please look out for your long term best interest.
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