Posted by TexasChic on January 26, 2006, at 17:39:33
In reply to Re: Bad Day » TexasChic, posted by LegWarmers on January 25, 2006, at 23:00:59
> ...I said, who is they? She just kind of brushed it off. It hadn't really sunk in what she said, I was still going, huh? It wasn't until later that I got mad.
> > ouch! That sucks. Im assuming this girl was watching out for you? Not being mean? Regarless, that was really out of line of them to talk about you.
The weird thing about it is, she used to be really friendly and went out of her way to include me, but in the past few weeks or so, she's been different. Its not anything blatant, she just isn't as friendly and I notice she never looks at me when we're in a group talking. I don't have the foggiest what up with her.
> See the thing is I told this one guy about having anxiety and taking Xanax and Prozac. Now I see he discussed it with the other two (at least).
>> maybe pull the guy aside and ask him if he did say anything. that would really feel awful :( sorry Texas chicI thought about doing that all day. But I just couldn't (fear of confrontation and all). He did seem to go out of his way to talk to me though. I still might say something to him about it if we're ever someplace other than work where I could talk to him alone.
>I don't even know if I want to talk to them tommorow.
>> It may be better if you act like nothing happened. Id try not to let them see you upset, but thats just me.I mostly kept to myself today. But unlike other days I've done that, people seemed to notice. Cuteboy kept talking to me, a couple of others went out of their way to too (people who usually don't even notice me), and at lunch one of the girls who is friends with the one I talked about earlier, insisted I come sit with them and stop being unsocialble. So I gave in. I made me feel better even though I still felt like I got the cold shoulder from the one girl.
>> :( what a hard situation to be in. I hope tomorrow goes ok! What a cool job btw!
Thanks for the support. I actually signed on and read your post this morning, it helped me be a little calmer. As for the job, its not as cool as it sounds, but I am eternally grateful to have it and not one of the jobs from hell I've had before. And although it may not be the most rewarding job in the world like being a nurse or social worker, its at least something that sometimes draws on my artistic talent, which makes it sort of fun. I always hated all my jobs before, so that's a big change for me.
Thanks again for the support!
-T
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