Posted by TexasChic on January 22, 2006, at 22:05:23
In reply to Re: Did you clean up? » LegWarmers, posted by TexasChic on January 16, 2006, at 18:07:50
I have to give up on cuteboy. I know I've been saying something to that effect for a while, but this is the first time I actually feel I'm going to follow through. I just started thinking, one day we're going to be hanging out and he'll bring a date, or hook up with someone in front of me and I'll be devastated. Its bound to happen. So for my own self preservation, I've GOT to let it go and move on.
I read somewhere, if its been a good while, and you've done everything you can think of, and he still hasn't made a move, its probably NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. I think I need to accept that. He could have done SOMETHING by now, no matter what the circumstances.
I'm not totally crossing him off my list. If he finally does something other than meaningful looks and shy smiles, then I'll have to reassess the situation. But its obviously not going to happen now. And I'm driving myself crazy constantly hoping it will.
Today I went to Starbucks for a Cinnamin Dolce Latte (which are awsome BTW) and a TOTALLY hot guy waited on me. He didn't seem the least bit interested or anything, but it made me think, there are other guys out there, I just need to start looking.
So tomorrow I will try to make it my first day of giving up that anything is going to happen between us. Who knows, maybe sometime in the distant future things will change, maybe not. Regardless, what I need to do is MOVE ON!
So we'll see how it goes.
-T
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