Posted by fallsfall on June 27, 2003, at 23:15:13
In reply to Re: How can something be safe if it's not permanent?, posted by Dinah on June 27, 2003, at 10:45:21
Dinah,
I think that I am starting to believe that you need redundancy for everything.
So far I know this is true for friends (one may be at their child's birthday party, or on vacation, or having their own crisis). If you have 2 or 3 or 4 friends then you have a better chance that someone will be available when you need them.
Clearly it is true for therapists. Having my group therapist in my back pocket helped me panic much less. Also knowing that there exists another therapist in the world who you could find who could help makes me feel safer.
I'm not sure what else.
Do you want to tell us what your pain is about? What is disappearing from your life?
(((((((Dinah)))))))
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