Posted by Chris Doe on May 25, 2003, at 13:39:38
In reply to darn dysthymia, posted by sid on January 10, 2002, at 0:44:20
I spent a better part of 5 years trying to figure out a way to "get back" at my father for things he did and the way he was. I heard the constant ridicule from my family about being a loser and not having my life worked out like they all do. Finally i was listening to a radio phyc show and the doctor said something that totaly made sense. Family connections are only strong because we are around these people and see them and talk to them often. This maintains whatever chemical reaction in the brain that creats love and effection. After hearing this i decided to stop talking to the members of my family who have hurt me. I now have no regrets, it was hard at first but my life is so much better without the influence and negativity given off by my family. Those of us with depression have enough negativity on our own and dont need any extra outside sources. In my opinion no family is better than one that treats you badly or contributes to the disorder. Hope this helps.
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