Posted by beardedlady on March 10, 2003, at 6:22:00
In reply to Worst fear realized . . . , posted by bozeman on March 10, 2003, at 1:12:22
Boze(wo)man:
I'm so sorry you're going through all this now. I don't have any advice, just good wishes. The issue of children has been the end of many a couple, but you were right to put your future first. Your desire for kids won't go away; it just doesn't. Instead, you get bitter.
So don't look back, wondering if you'd done the right thing. You did.
As for your comment here:
"I'm too smart for my own good, obsessive, compulsive, opinionated, stubborn, sensitive, somewhat of a perfectionist, overachiever, goal-oriented, and insecure sometimes...."
Were those supposed to be your BAD qualities?
"...but I'm also loyal, dedicated, principled, passionate about life and love, resourceful, strong, nurturing, gentle, creative, interesting, funny, and fun to be around."
And those were your good ones?
What are you doing for dinner tonight, babe?
You sound like a great choice. So if he's not knocking on your door begging to apologize, someone else will be there with a dinner proposal soon!
Again, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Four years is a major investment, but your future is a bigger one. Good luck and know that we are all here for you.
beardy
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