Posted by bluedog on March 1, 2003, at 9:55:26
In reply to Re: Handsome, looks, personality or BOTH?, posted by dreamerz on March 1, 2003, at 9:15:31
Thankyou all for your responses.
I'm going to bed now to catch some sleep and to process all that info that you guys gave me in my dreams tonight. Maybe Dreamer's Elves will pay me a visit tonight and whisper the answers to the mysteries of life into my ear as I lay in a deep and restful slumber.
I'll respond with my thoughts in detail tomorrow when I'm fresh....but I've GOT to say one thing. I do do not go for the supermodel types..can't explain why. A girl merely has to be attractive to ME. I've found girls attractive that some of my male friends wouldn't even bother giving a second glance at. There's definitely got to be a certain chemistry present which is unexplainable. Unfortunately the chemistry always seems to come from my side only and is never reciprocated. Either that or I'm completely incompetent at reading the signals due to being paralysed with my fear of rejection.
Maybe as Iso says I've simply got to develop more "swagger' and confidence. I know that social anxiety and major depression is not a great turn on for any girl. The weird thing is that depressed girls can still seem to attract guys. Why is that? Dreamer.....how is it that despite your problems you still seem to attract guys (please don't take this the wrong way...I hope you realise what I'm getting at) Are you really good looking or something?
Probably just one of the mysteries of life really:) :).
warm regards and till tomorrow
sweet dreams
bluedog
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