Posted by bluedog on March 1, 2003, at 0:03:34
In reply to Handsome » bluedog, posted by bozeman on February 28, 2003, at 23:43:37
> Hi Dreamy
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> Don't worry about the milkshake date I asked you out on. I can't compete with Derren.
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> I would sell my soul to the devil to be magically transformed into someone with good looks.
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> GRRR GRRR ....life is unfair.
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> love
> bluedog
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> Bluedog, dear --
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> Bet dreamerz will have a milkshake with you anyway, 'cuz you're so sweet. ;-)
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> Don't even SAY that!
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> OF COURSE IT IS!!!! If it weren't, WE'D be running the world, instead of the (be civil now, boze) "nice, simple, boring" people that are running it.
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> And BTW, the sexiest men I have ever known were always at least a little overweight, (sometimes more than a little :-) and often bald or balding. Sexy is what comes OUT of a person, oozes out of every pore of them, twinkles out of their eyes and in the velvet of their voice -- not something that gets randomly poured on you at birth, like skin that tans evenly, or a square jawline.
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> Personally, I am quite *bored* with swimsuit-model-type men who are more interested in how their hair looks than paying attention to me, witty and charming as I am. :-) I would much rather go for a walk with a man I find intellectually interesting and emotionally appealing, than go to dinner and dancing with a "stud-muffin" who can't make decent conversation, or doesn't care to.
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> But I digress!! When are you having coffee/tea/milkshake/whatever with Yoga Girl? <chuckle>
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> I have no idea what you look like, but anybody who grows sweet retrievers and a garden is OK by me. <wink>
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> bozeman
>What IS it that attracts a girl to a guy?????
Actually come to think of it Jack Nicholson is not particularly handsome in the traditional sense and women seem to adore him. Do you think women would still have liked him even if he wasn't a rich and famous movie star?
Do you think charisma and a sparkle in the eye are more important than looks?
PLease be BRUTALLY honest here. This is something I've been pondering over for years and have never really had the opportunity to fully and honestly discuss with anyone. Anyone I ask has simply been too nice to want to hurt my feelings with the truth. And I want to know the TRUTH.
And as for therapists whenever I ask them, they always pussyfoot around the topic. They are too afraid to be brutally honest or to even be a little bit honest with there patients (at least the ones I've dealt with)
First a bit of background about me. I suffer from social anxiety as my primary diagnosis. I have a brother who has never had to try with women. I mean he's had extremely attractive girls approach him at Pubs and Clubs and practically try to drag him into bed without even having had a decent conversation with him. Yet no matter how hard I try these same girls never even seem to notice me. This has confused and confounded me me all my life.
Really looking forward to any comments.
warm regards
bluedog
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