Re: self-hate; posting can be hard too

Posted by Fi on January 28, 2002, at 17:32:11

In reply to self-hate as the easy way out., posted by paula on January 27, 2002, at 23:02:56

Although this Board is anonymous, I think you should also credit yourself with sharing a bit here. I know it has its own kind of risks- replies are usually supportive/insightful, but you can also get no reply or someone sounding off at you, or sharing a negative experience.
I know my heart sinks a bit sometimes after I have sent a message revealing anything about myself- I feel really exposed. Tho relieved after I get a helpful reply, which makes it worthwhile.
Replies can be upsetting, but I'm *not* saying that people should be positive or agree all the time- its realistic that this isnt the case.
So give yourself credit for 2 kinds of sharing (real and virtual)!
Fi

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self-hate as the easy way out. paula 1/27/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. finelinebob 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. mist 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. Shar 1/28/02
Very true and well-said to boot. (nm) » mist Shar 1/28/02
Thanks! (nm) » Shar mist 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » paula Fi 1/28/02
Re: self-hate; posting can be hard too Fi 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. paula 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » mist paula 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » Fi paula 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » Shar paula 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » paula mist 1/28/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » paula Krazy Kat 1/29/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » Krazy Kat paula 1/29/02
Re: self-hate as the easy way out. » paula Krazy Kat 2/1/02
the soulmate question » Krazy Kat paula 2/2/02

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